If You Were Blindsided By Your Breakup Here’s What To Do…

In my opinion, there are are three types of breakups, Breakup Type #1: The Bad Breakup Breakup Type #2: The Mutual Breakup Breakup Type #3: The Blindside Breakup Care to take a wild guess at what type of breakup this article is going to talk about? Yup, the blindside breakup. Read More….

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7 Comments to If You Were Blindsided By Your Breakup Here’s What To Do…

  1. lost and heartbroken says:

    Couldn’t agree more ! Thanks Chris awesome article.

  2. Patricia says:

    I don’t understand why a man would be *pleased* that someone else is suffering so much.

  3. EBR Team Member: Amor says:

    yes, it does matter but it’s not just about length..it wont matter how long you did it if you didnt improve yourself and you sound like chasing him when you talk to him

  4. blah says:

    So I thought everything was going fine. We went to a trip to an island and everything waz good great, we had gone to the theater this month and he was excited about moving on from his job and getting a new one. After the island trip he had his interview, he thought everything was fine, but later on the week he found out he wasn’t hired. He got depressed, I let him be and I told him I would support him whatever happened I continued giving him space and it had been a week since we had seen each other. Then on wednesday I got sad cuz he didnt reply a text that I said I miss him. And I was like I dont understand how you cant even take the time to reply cuz like 18 hours had passed. He apologized we kept talking like everything was fine and he kept asking me when I got out of work cuz he wanted to hang. Turns out he asked to have dinner two days later and I said yes and I just got in the car and he started crying saying he couldnt do this anymore, that things were too serious that he couldnt do it. He said he was terrified, that he didnt want to end up marrying me in five years that he didnt want to date anyone fore that tim, that I didnt do anything wrongm He asked to yell at him to punch him to do whatever and he just had this face of profound suffering and I couldnt believe what was happening, neither could his friends, my friends, his family, my fsmily! like I think maybe he is having a quarter life crisis, how the fuck I didnt see this coming, I just thought he was sad that he needef space. I really want him back, I didnt do a single thing wrong. I wasnt clingy, nor high maintainance, I didnt complain of guy nights. I dont fucking know.

  5. Imogen says:

    Hey EBR team!
    I’ve been dating my ex for about a month now. We’re exclusive with each other, he’s taken me out with his friends and told them we were dating, kissed me in front of them, and we’ve both been very open with each other. Much more than our past relationship (we were together for 3yrs).
    Now the issue is that he won’t call me his girlfriend, won’t add me back on facebook, and hasn’t mentioned that he’s seeing me to his parents yet. Both of our profiles still say that we’re single.
    Yet when we’re together he asks me to stay over for days at a time, doesn’t want me to leave etc. but i feel like we’ve skipped the fun dating phase and gone straight to living together without the title :/ He doesn’t want to do much, and he doesn’t put any effort into planning dates for us (money isn’t an issue, yet he’s always wanting to do the cheaper option), nor does he seem that affectionate when we’re apart.
    So my question is, what can i do to change this situation around and get him to start putting more effort in, and get him to ask me to be his girlfriend again?

  6. EBR Team Member: Amor says:

    Hi Blah,

    he needs space.. for him right now, spending time with you is a chore.. probably because he’s sad.. he needs to be sad.. so, if you want, just let him be

  7. EBR Team Member: Amor says:

    Hi Imogen,

    be less available and focus in your own activities.. check this one too:
    How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Commit